{Afterhought: My sister just called me and thought that this had actually happened to me. I figured the big box saying 'Fiction Friday' would clue people in that it was made up, but apparently not. :0) This is a story. It is not real in any way, shape, or form. It is part of Jane's Fiction Friday. Go check it out and start writing a story of your own! I do love a good read!}
Friday, March 7, 2008
Fiction Friday Week 2
Deep Thoughts by Ashlee at 6:45 AM 14 comments
Labels: Fiction Friday
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Flashback Friday...er..I mean Thursday
When I was in 2nd grade my family moved to South Padre Island, TX. My mom took a fabulous job there so we moved 2000 miles away from home to find a new one. We only lived on the actual island for a few months until an actual residence was found for us. But, I will never forget living there. Out my back door were three, yes three different pools. And just beyond those pools was the beach. Sand between the toes and salt water. I hate salt water. I remember trying to swim in the ocean {it was actually the Gulf of Mexico we were swimming in} and the water got up my nose and in my mouth and I haven't
been able to swim in salt water since.
I also remember The Turtle Lady. Ila Loetscher was THE Turtle Lady. That was what she was called. They had a visitors center there on the island that you could go to and actually touch a turtle. Ila was known for helping to save the endangered sea turtles. I have a signed postcard from her. Deep Thoughts by Ashlee at 7:54 AM 6 comments
Labels: Flashback Friday, memories, South Padre Island, Turtle Lady
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
American Idol Recap
Luke started off the evening and tried to sing a Wham! song. He sang it way too fast and it didn't flow at all. I know he was trying to show that he could hit the high notes...which he did...but it just didn't work for me at ALL. It was definitely the wrong song for him to pick.

I was surprised to see him start out playing the piano this week. Pleasantly surprised. He did a great job singing Phil Collins - Paradise, and put his own little spin on it again. He's got talent, this kid...
It wasn't as good as last week, but that would've been hard to top. Simon made a good point that perhaps he should sing something a little more peppy next week because his song choices were all depressing. Last week we were imagining no possessions and this week are being told to think twice about homeless people. Not bad messages, but it could get boring EVERY week for his teeny bopper fans.

Then came Danny...with purple streaks in his hair. One of my favorite 80s songs is Tainted Love...which he chose to sing. He gave it a new punk "spin" and RUINED IT! So mad at that boy. Tainted Love was....well.....tainted. Sigh. Needless to say, I didn't think he did very good. I want this kid to go away! But, I have the feeling he won't be kicked off this week. Too many scarf lovers out there voting for him.

So, the stripping wasn't brought up. Which I am fine with. I was worried he was going to bring it up in his interview, but nothing was said about his days taking his clothes off.
He tried to sing Celine Dion. I didn't like it. He only hit a few bad notes, but it just didn't work for me at all. Guys just shouldn't sing Celine. you know?

Michael started to sing and I was having instant flashbacks to the Breakfast Club. {great movie by the way!} "Don't you forget about me....." He did such a good job with it too. I'm starting to feel like he's showing a bit of an "I'm too cool for this" attitude. Kind of annoying me.
I haven't really liked this guy. Don't know why...maybe just because I've already got my favorites and he's not one of them. But this week, he really surprised me. He was so good. He took Lionel Richie's song "Hello" and made it into a serious Rock and Roll {he played electric guitar} balad style song. It was wicked awesome. Now, I'm torn. I still don't want to like him...but if he keeps surprising me...I don't know...

He is my favorite. I {puffy heart} Jason. This Jason...and my Jaysen too. :0) He ditched the guitar this week to appease the judges...and it didn't matter. I had never heard this song before, or maybe he just changed it so much that I couldn't tell what it was...but it was beautiful. You can tell when he sings that he just FEELS the music. He sings from his heart and then when it's over, I think he realizes what he's done and gets embarrased. :0) It's cute. I want him to win. :0)

Another one I don't want to like. Ever since that first week in the red suit....I'm still cringing. He sang a Whitney Houston song, and did a pretty decent job on it. He didn't wow me like Jason though...so Chikezie is still on my bottom rung list.
Hopefully the girls whip out some great 80s tunes tonight for us. I've got my fingers crossed...
Oh! And my choices for the losers this week? Definitely Luke and Danny. Like I said though, I have a feeling that Danny will stick around and someone else will have to leave in his place. Hopefully David A...but I think his new stripper loving fans might vote for him. :0)
Deep Thoughts by Ashlee at 6:58 AM 10 comments
Labels: American Idol
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Dogs and Weight Loss
My dilemma is what to do with the flower beds I want to put in the backyard. Dumb 5 month old puppy will destroy anything I plant. Toby is a Golden Retriever, so even though I say puppy, please do not picture in your mind a cute little puppy. He is ginormous already. I mean...look at that paw! And SO heavy....Anyway...though I have it all pictured out in my mind, I don't want to risk having him destroy all of my hard work. I'm feeling resigned to leaving it as is until he's better trained. But it makes me so sad because I had so many plans. It was going to be so pretty along my fenceline. Sigh....I'll just have to stick with getting the front of the house pretty. The previous owners kind of let it go.......Sunday, March 2, 2008
Me from A to Z
Me from A to Z
Yes....it's another game of tag...play along won't you?
A:Attached or single: Very attached...but not at the hip. :0)
B:Best friend(s): hubby and kids
C:Cake or Pie: cake? yes please!
D:Day of choice: I love Saturdays! The hubby is home all day!
E:Essential Item: for what? I have a lot of essentials....
F:Favorite Color: Brown.
G:Gummi Bears or Worms: Neither...what about Sour Patch Kids? My favorite!
H:Hometown: I'm an Idaho girl through and through.....
I:Indulgence(s): too many desserts! I can't help myself! Though if I were truly to indulge myself I would have a very LONG day at the spa...massage, pedicure, manicure...that would be great!
J:January or July: July...no snow!
K:Kids: Two kids that are WAY cuter than anyone else's!
L:Life is incomplete without: my family
M:Marriage Date: May 15
N:Number of siblings: 2 sisters and a brother
O:Oranges or Apples: That really depends on my mood. I usually eat more apples though
P:Phobias or fears: Harm coming to my family
Q:Quote(s): "Laugh until your cheeks hurt"
R:Reason To Smile: too many to list
S:Season: Probably fall, love it when it gets a little chilly and holidays are coming up
T:Tag: Everyone! And you all better play OR ELSE!
U:Unknown Fact about Me: Haven't I revealed everything already?
V:Vegetarian or Oppressor of Animal: I'm an oppressor of animals, me like meat.
W:Worst Habit: chewing the inside of my cheek
X:X-rays or Ultrasounds: well, ultrasounds are usually to offer exciting news like with babies, so I'll pick that one
Y:Your favorite Food: pasta, dessert
Z:Zodiac: Cancer
Now you know...and knowing is half the battle! :0)
Deep Thoughts by Ashlee at 7:11 PM 10 comments
Labels: A to Z, all about me, tag
Saturday, March 1, 2008
Why am I doing this?
In reflection of the sour week I had last week, and the frustration I am still feeling now, I remembered something someone told me a few weeks ago.
He said, "I need you to write down what I need to tell you to stay motivated. Or, in other words, why am I doing this? That way I can use your words against you because the way I see it, there are two kinds of people in this world. Those who want to quit, and quitters."
This popped into my head this morning and it made me stop for a minute. This applies to so many things. Why are we doing this? Why is it important? Sometimes we need a reminder. I often think about the selflessness of mothers. We give up our bodies by birthing them, social calendars, and sometimes our sanity in order to provide a good life for our children. We love them. But there are days that the laundry seems never ending, there are dirty dishes AGAIN!, the baby has another stinky diaper, there are Doritos crushed into the carpet and bananas squished into the couch, and though it's dinnertime, you haven't even made it into the shower yet because you were finishing up your kids school project that is due tomorrow. Those are the days I want to throw my hands up in the air and lock myself in my room yelling "I QUIT!" We start to ask ourselves, "Why did I want to do this again?"
Sometimes we need a reminder. Though I prefer the natural reminders like my daughter giving me a big hug and kiss while saying, "Wuv woo mommy!" Maybe on one of our "good days" we should sit down and write down what we need to tell ourselves to stay motivated. Or, in other words, why we are doing this. Here's my list:
- I do this to help my kids now that I am always here for them. That I am here for them now when they are still small, will hopefully be ingrained in their minds when they need help in the future.
- I learn more from my kids some days than what I actually teach them. Though I know that the calling of being a mother is a magnificent one, there are days where I feel more blessed by having them as my children than they are for having me as their mother.
- I am doing this to help provide as safe and comfy place for my children. I want them to WANT to be home. To feel comfortable bringing their friends over for YEARS to come.
- Though the saying is, "A clean home is a happy home" cleaning is not my idea of fun. But I'm setting a good example for my kids. My son will NOT be one of those guys that doesn't know how to cook anything except for Ramen Noodles. And he will know how to do his own laundry.
- More importantly, I do this for the kisses, the hugs, the giggles, the tea parties, the secret clubhouses, the tickle monsters, the snuggles, and piggyback rides. To make sure they KNOW they are loved beyond description.
Maybe I'm the only one that has days like this. But this idea can apply to just about anything we are trying to accomplish. As I have been reminded, sometimes the hardest journeys are the ones with the biggest rewards. What's my reward for countless loads of laundry, daily dish washing, nose wiping, and diaper changing? The adoration of two adorable kids that I have the honor of mothering. And it IS an honor.
So, go write your list so you can use it against yourself on your next "bad" day. I plan on using mine.

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Basement Update
This is the view from the stairwell. The ceiling and most of the walls have been sheetrocked in this main game room. My room is completely done, and the storage room is finished now as well.
This is my room. The closet is to the left.
This is the storage closet.
This is the tv room. This is where they will get started on Monday.
This was that horrid orange bedroom. The sheetrock was torn out and hauled off to the dump this last week so they could get started on it. Do you see what a good job the previous owners did with the insulation? Sigh.
They also hauled out the ugly pink sheetrock this last week as well.
Slowly but surely...I can't wait! Only about three more weeks!
Deep Thoughts by Ashlee at 8:12 AM 9 comments





